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🇬🇧 🥳 Social · Everyday conversation, with effort (A2)

🥂 Small talk at a party

🎯 Start, keep going and politely end a conversation with a stranger

🎮 Play this in class

Use the usual 50-minute plan: warm-up → key phrases → challenges → role-play → discussion → wrap-up. Share this page on Zoom so the student can see the phrases, but keep "Your card" to yourself.

💬 Warm-up questions

  • Do you like parties?
  • How do you start talking to someone new?

🔑 Key phrases

  • So, how do you know the host?ホストとはどういう知り合いですか?
  • What do you do?お仕事は何を?
  • Oh really? That sounds interesting.へえ、おもしろそうですね。
  • How long have you been doing that?どのくらいやっているんですか?
  • Same here!私もです!
  • It was really nice talking to you.お話しできてよかったです。

📚 Useful words

  • host — 主催者
  • mutual friend — 共通の友人
  • catch up — 近況を話す
  • mingle — いろいろな人と話す
  • awkward silence — 気まずい沈黙
  • grab a drink — 飲み物を取りに行く

⚡ Speaking challenges

  • Ask 3 follow-up questions about my job.
  • Keep a conversation going about the weather for 1 minute.
  • End a conversation politely in 2 ways.
  • Introduce two people to each other.

🎭 Role-play

A house party with people from many countries.

🧑‍🎓 Student's card

Talk to a stranger for 5 minutes: find 2 things in common, then end the conversation politely.

🧑‍🏫 Your card (tutor)

Be a stranger who gives short answers at first. Open up only when the student asks follow-up questions.

🌀 Twist (halfway through): Awkward silence! The student must restart the conversation with a new topic.

🗣️ Discussion questions

  • What topics are safe for small talk? Which ones aren't?
  • Is small talk important or a waste of time?
  • How is small talk different in Japan?

📌 Homework

Write 10 small-talk questions you can use at your next event次のイベントで使える雑談の質問を10個書く